Coming to the Shelter can be a scarey process. These questions and answers will help give some information and our staff are able to speak with you about your story and any questions about staying at the shelter.
Q. How do I know if I am abused?
A. Trust your inner feelings. Are you "walking on eggshells" around your partner? Do you have to account for your time away? Do you feel put down or threatened in any way? Are you being pushed, shoved, slapped or punched by your partner? If it feels abusive, it probably is!
Q. What can I expect if I come to the Y Women’s Shelter?
A. You can expect confidentiality between you and the shelter staff. You can expect to be believed when you speak about your experiences. You can expect to feel safe and supported. You can expect a safe, supportive, loving and non-threatening environment for you and your children. You will meet women who share the same or similar experiences as you. You can expect to have some fun even though you are in crisis. You can expect to leave the shelter with more understanding about your relationship than when you arrived.
Q. How much will it cost me to stay at the Shelter?
A. Your accommodation, meals and support will cost you nothing and we have basic personal supplies.
Your accommodation, meals and support will cost you nothing and we have basic personal supplies.
Q. How long may I stay at the Shelter?
A. You may stay up to 30 days. During this time you will have a safe environment and experienced staff to assist you in making some difficult decisions by offering you information and support.
Q. How do I know if a stay in the Shelter is the right thing for me?
A. Phone us, we are here 24-hours/day each and every day. We will tell you about what is available here, help you assess your safety in your own home, put you in touch with other shelters or transition houses in the country, refer you to other agencies or people or offer you support through our non residential services.